Significant Others

Alright, so here's the deal. Why do most humans feel that they need to have a boyfriend/girlfriend, and if they don't, they're "incomplete"? If I want a boyfriend, I'll go look for one, or tell the guy I like that I like him. It doesn't make me a loser or incomplete to not have a boyfriend.

And why do we pick apart boy-girl relationships, and come to the conclusion that if a boy and girl are hanging out, they must at least be friends with benefits. Why do people do this? Can't we all just leave other people alone? As shocking as this may seem, guys and girls CAN be friends without banging each other.

And for those of you who are in wonderful, committed relationships, stop flaunting it! It's annoying! You're happy, we get that. It's wonderful, really, but most of us are also trying to find that happiness, and you're not helping us by saying things like, "Oh my boyfriend/girlfriend is so great!", or "We totally love each other!", etc. It makes me want to be bitchy and mean, and sulky. and that's not good for anyone. If you occasionally mention your boyfriend/girlfriend or say something like, "I'm so happy I have him/her." once in a while, ok, fine. That's great. But don't shove it in my face that you're so happy you could die, or PDA right in front of me.

I myself, would love to have a significant other. Someone who will love me, and tell me I'm pretty, and protect me from crazy hoodlums/rapists. But until I find that special someone, I'm happy being single.


I think this song sums up my feelings pretty well.

:)